Intimacy in Relationships with PD: Positive information!

   Sexual relationships are a normal, healthy part of adult life and having Parkinson’s disease should not deter people from continuing to enjoy intimate activities. However it is worth understanding that the disease can impact on people in different ways and some adjustments may need to be made.
   Some people find their sex drive has all but disappeared since their diagnosis of Parkinson’s disease. This can be a result of the worry and stress associated with any new circumstances and may gradually settle down as people learn to accept and cope better with the diagnosis. Fatigue is also a well-known cause of loss of interest in sex. Prioritising some time when you are rested and relaxed and symptoms are well controlled can help maintain an intimate relationship.
   Parkinson’s disease may have a direct, adverse effect on erectile function in some men. People can be reluctant to talk about their sex life with their doctor but it is an important subject that can make a significant difference to your quality of life. Erectile dysfunction may be treated by specific medications or may be remedied by adjustments to the anti-Parkinson’s medications.
   Parkinson’s disease can also interfere with sexual activity at an emotional level. People with the disease may not feel sexually attractive as their self-esteem may have taken a battering or they may be depressed. There may also be new issues arising in long-standing relationship especially as the disease progresses and one partner takes on a caring role for the other. It is therefore important to keep the lines of communication open. Talk to your partner about how you are feeling, how they are coping and what can be done to rejuvenate the relationship.
   Don’t worry that sex may be too strenuous or exacerbate symptoms in people with Parkinson’s disease. Physical activity is almost always a good thing. And a healthy sex life is likely to be a great comfort and a distraction from other day-to-day problems.
   Sexual problems can arise completely independently of Parkinson’s disease. Ageing, menopause and other illnesses such as cardiovascular disease or prostate problems can all impact on sexual interest and activity. Check with your doctor if there are ongoing problems that need to be investigated.

Article courtesy of www.parkinsons.org